Post by bbking73 on Nov 26, 2014 5:22:59 GMT
I watched your video post on Dailymotion about your father and wanted to let you know that I'm going though something similar with my aging father. Several years ago my mother, who dedicated most of her life to her marriage, passed away. Curiously, just a few short months after her death my father became engaged to a younger woman. This new woman, expresses signs of mental and emotional instability, and tries to control his relationship with anyone near to my father, effectively cutting him off from family and friends.
In the beginning, I wished there was something I could do to make him see what everyone else sees. To make him understand how destructive and manipulative she really is. But later I realized that he does know, he knows that marrying her was a mistake. I believe he is willing to go to the grave honoring his new marriage as punishment for his rash and selfish actions. This belief truly saddens me.
Anyway, I noticed you removed the video and I just wanted you to know that you have at least one person that understands your fury. I hope you are doing well.
In the beginning, I wished there was something I could do to make him see what everyone else sees. To make him understand how destructive and manipulative she really is. But later I realized that he does know, he knows that marrying her was a mistake. I believe he is willing to go to the grave honoring his new marriage as punishment for his rash and selfish actions. This belief truly saddens me.
Anyway, I noticed you removed the video and I just wanted you to know that you have at least one person that understands your fury. I hope you are doing well.